Draw on Your Relationships

Draw on Your Relationships

Creative Ways to Explore, Understand and Work Through Important Relationship Issues

Sunderland, Margot; Armstrong, Nicky

Taylor & Francis Ltd

02/2019

174

Mole

Inglês

9781138070707

15 a 20 dias

548

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INTRODUCTION

* How to use this book

* Why use drawings and images to speak about feelings?

* How to work safely

* Key rules and guidelines in helping someone to speak about feelings

* About sandplay and how to use it

YOU AND YOUR RELATIONSHIPS

* You, your relationships, your life
* Encouragers and discouragers in my life (past and present)
* People in your life, as gardens
* The cocktail party
* Your relationships as walls, bridges, comfortable sofas & take off
* Museum of too alone
* My childhood memories: People as places
* Relationship riches

DEAD, DEPRIVING, DRAINING, DISAPPOINTING RELATIONSHIPS
* My Relationship: Take off or stuck on the runway?
* To leave or to stay?
* The 'nothing much happening' times
* A relationship that's holding me back
* People who energise. People who drain
* Too many takers and not enough givers
* Am I expecting too much from her/him?
* Disappointing relationship or futile quest for perfect mate?

LIFE-CHANGING RELATIONSHIPS
* People you've been flying with
* Flying together as a group
* Collecting moments, not things
* Oh, how we laugh!
* Knights (posing as people)

LOVE HURTS
* Museum of hurt
* When I can't reach you
* Life after losing a person or their love
* The end of a relationship. What now?
* Loving someone who isn't good at loving
* Do I matter to you?
* No one listens / too unhelped
* Rejected / not wanted / uninvited / redundant
* On the outside of the group

DAMAGING AND DESTRUCTIVE RELATIONSHIPS
* Power over / power under / power with
* Toxic shame
* Managing conflict badly
* Controlled
* Emotional baggage
* Hidden resentments
* So many difficult/annoying people in my life
* Anger fuelled by pain from the past

RELATIONSHIPS AND FEAR
* Fear of intimacy
* Withdrawal, avoidance and leaving
* Fear of closeness and fear of distance
* Fear of being in groups
* Fear of being myself in case I am too much
* Without a voice
* Mistrust

TOOLS AND TECHNIQUES TO IMPROVE AND REPAIR RELATIONSHIPS

* The art of relationship (for one person)

* The 'when you...I feel' exercise (for two people)

* The 'unfinished sentence' exercise (for two people)

* The 'like / don't like it' game (for two people)

* The empathy game (for two people)

* Our best and worst times (for two people)

* Theories of motivation (for two people)

* Paper conversations
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